I've always prided myself in being a dog person. I'm pretty intuitive to their needs and have always felt in control of my dogs in the past. Sydney, however, is a different story. She was a street dog that my son rescued a few years ago. She was less than a year old, full of fleas and growled at everyone that came near her. Needless to say, I wasn't happy and wanted him to find her a home. He worked with her and eventually, she won me over. Now, I can't imagine her not being a part of my life. She is my sweet-pea.
So, we started walking and with the retractable leash all the way out, I let her run here and there and pee on every clump of grass or bush or stick or whatever she felt needed a little pee. It always amazed me that she could pee so much. Sometimes, we would encounter other dogs and their walkers and Sydney would stop and stare and whine and lunge toward them. I thought this was normal until lately, her lunge started looking more like a marlin jumping out of the sea at the end of a fishing cable, twisting and flying into the air! And along with all the jumping crap was this fierce cujo-esque growling. Scary and embarrassing - all at the same time! What if she broke free? Would she fight the dog or bite it's owner? What if she pulled me down? What the crap?! Then I thought, well, maybe it's just certain dogs. Nope, she started this behavior with every dog we came across. Even little tiny dogs. I had to either get control of this or stop walking her and I didn't want to stop walking her. She needs to walk as much as I do to get healthy.
I found this article "Behaviors to Avoid During the Walk" to be quite an eye-opener to what I'd been letting Sydney do on our daily walks. She was apparently marking out her territory and protecting it. I'm not letting her pee on everything on our walks and I take her to a certain spot and tell her "go potty" and she does. Walking isn't as much fun right now, but it wasn't fun seeing her turn into cujo, either. It will take time, but I think our walks will be more enjoyable when it becomes just a walk instead of a territorial marking fest.
Enjoy your weekend!
I have to go read that article. I vote that Sydney has some corgi in her with your mention of strong personality traits. UGH! And I read in the book Inside of a Dog, that they aren't really peeing that much. They are posting notes on the community 'bulletin board.'
ReplyDeleteShe and Bella do seem a lot alike. I plan to read that book, too. The posting notes thing cracked me up, lol!
DeleteYour description of how she lunges sounds just like my Scarlette...including the growling. And Scarlette is a 10 lb. Peekapoo. lmao
ReplyDeleteHi Tammy!! Good to see you :) And I can't imagine little Scarlette acting that way! Too funny!
DeleteInteresting article. Buster likes to go to the park, mostly so he can sniff and pee. Since he can't walk fast due to his elbow problems, we just mosey around and I let him do whatever he wants. He is not aggressive with other dogs, loves people (including children), and in general is just a sweetheart. He is not even on a leash most of the time, because all I have to do to control him is say..."wait."
ReplyDeleteSo, I wonder if the "messaging" is a problem in a dog that is very obedient and docile, like Buster is. Or is it only a problem when it leads to other problematic behavior?
Hi Grace, I wish I could let my girl off the leash and let her run free like Buster but I'm afraid to try it. I don't think that article applies to all dogs. Some are just naturally well behaved. Others, like some children, are born to push the envelope!
DeleteLOVE your art work....
ReplyDeleteLOVE your dog story...
LOVE how we all learn as we go!
That once was a curse... now it's a blessing ....
And I suspect our freedom lies in it!
GLAD that you are doing so well!
Thanks, Anne! I can't take credit for the artwork, though. It's a graphic from a print shop program I have :)
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